We love theme parties and dressing up, so we’ve envisioned a 19th-century, Charles Dickens-inspired Christmas wedding! We enthusiastically encourage our guests to dress in Victorian or Regency-era attire in accordance with our holiday vision.
You can choose to dress anywhere from full historical immersion or simply accessorize a formal outfit with accessories. Please see below and our website for more information.
Please note: Your presence is what is most important to us. If you prefer not to dress in period attire, traditional formal evening wear is absolutely welcome.
Modern Regency-inspired formal
A modern formal dress with a few romantic, old-fashioned details—like a square neckline, puff sleeves, a higher waist, and a flowing skirt. Rich colors such as burgundy, along with embroidery or a little sparkle, make the look festive and elegant without feeling like a costume.
Burgundy Embroidered Square-Neck Dress - Etsy
Link: https://www.etsy.com/listing/4541738497/vintage-cottagecore-midi-dress-for
Style: Modern Regency-inspired formal
Historical Victorian-Inspired Ball Gown
A more immersive period look with a fitted, boned bodice, corset-style back, off-the-shoulder neckline, and full ball-gown skirt. This is a great example for guests who want to fully embrace the historical theme.
Link:https://www.etsy.com/listing/4483542572/handmade-victorian-inspired-ball-gown
Modern formal with 19th-century-inspired details
A modern formal gown with soft puff sleeves and a flowing A-line skirt. The romantic sleeves give it a subtle old-fashioned feel, while the overall look stays simple, elegant, and easy to wear.
A great option for guests who want to join the theme
without wearing period clothing.
Link: https://www.ever-pretty.com/products/chiffon-puff-sleeve-a-line-evening-dress-ee02823
Lulus Romari Burgundy Velvet Puff-Sleeve Maxi Dress
Style: Modern formal with Victorian richness
Website caption: Burgundy velvet, small puff sleeves, a fitted bodice and an empire-style waist create a beautiful winter formal look. The velvet adds Victorian richness while the silhouette remains completely modern and easy to wear.
Why it works: Excellent example of modern formalwear that still feels special for a Victorian Christmas setting.
Men's 19th-Century-inspired formal attire
Men can participate as much or as little as they like. A guest may choose a full historical outfit or simply wear modern formal clothing with one or two old-fashioned details such as velvet, a waistcoat, a cravat, a pocket watch or dark tartan.
Style: Full historical look
A full historical option for guests who want to completely embrace the 19th-century theme. The long dark coat, matching waistcoat, cravat and fitted silhouette create an unmistakably period-inspired look.
In simple terms: Best for someone who wants to dress fully in the historical theme.
Style: Modern formal with a historical touch.
An easy way to participate in the theme without wearing period clothing. The black velvet adds a rich, old-world feel, while the tuxedo, white shirt and bow tie keep the outfit familiar and formal.
In simple terms: A great choice for guests who want a normal tuxedo with just a little historical character.
Style: Modern formal with a festive historical touch
A simple and stylish way to join the theme. Pair a burgundy velvet dinner jacket with black trousers, a white dress shirt and a black bow tie. The velvet and deep color feel festive and old-fashioned, but the overall outfit is still modern formal eveningwear.
In simple terms: Ideal for someone who wants to look festive and formal without dressing historically.
EASY 19TH-CENTURY-INSPIRED ACCESSORIES
Simple ideas guests can add to formal clothes they already own
You do not need to buy a new outfit to join the theme. Start with the formal dress, suit or tuxedo you already own and add one or two vintage-style accessories.
One or two accessories are enough - there is no need to wear everything at once.
FOR WOMEN
Easy idea: Wear your normal formal dress and add just one vintage-style accessory.
Cameo Brooch
Website description: Pin a cameo brooch to a dress,
wrap or jacket. It gives a clear old-fashioned touch
without changing your whole outfit.
Example link: Etsy example
https://www.etsy.com/listing/187799368/victorian-lady-cameo-brooch-antique-gold
Black Velvet Gloves
Website description: Long black velvet gloves can
make a simple evening dress feel more elegant and
historical. They work especially well with sleeveless or
short-sleeve gowns.
Example link: ieie Bridal example
https://www.ieiebridal.com/products/long-black-velvet-opera-gloves-for-formal-evening-dress-ac1017
Faux-Fur Wrap or Stole
Website description: A faux-fur wrap adds warmth
and vintage winter glamour to a modern formal dress.
Ivory, black, brown or deep jewel tones all work well.
Example link: Etsy example
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1421225385/ivory-white-faux-fur-wrap-shawl-shrug
FOR MEN
Easy idea: Wear your normal suit or tuxedo and change just one or two details.
Pocket Watch and Chain
Website description: Wear a pocket watch and chain with a vest or suit. It is a small detail that immediately gives a formal outfit a 19th-century feel.
Example link: Historical Emporium example
https://historicalemporium.com/products/quartz-lacy-design-pocket-watch-silver
Patterned Brocade Waistcoat
Website description: Swap a plain vest for a patterned brocade waistcoat. Wear it with a white shirt and a dark suit or tuxedo for an easy historical touch.
Example link: Etsy example
https://www.etsy.com/listing/4377973848/mens-black-brocade-victorian-waistcoat
Burgundy Ascot or Cravat
Website description: Replace a regular tie with an ascot or cravat. Burgundy, black, gold, navy or dark green work well with a black, navy or charcoal suit.
Example link: The Ascot Shop example
https://www.theascotshop.co.uk/products/burgundy-red-ascot-cravat
Tartan Bow Tie
Website description: A tartan bow tie is an easy way to add a festive, old-fashioned touch to a suit or tuxedo. Keep the rest of the outfit simple.
Example link: Nordstrom example
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/trafalgar-nicholas-tartan-plaid-silk-bow-tie/7221466